MID YEAR CRISIS?

Hi there, 

How is the year going for you? Have you lost track of what vision you started this year with? Did it feel too difficult to handle that you had to bow out quietly or maybe not quietly.

 

With a new year comes enthusiasm, many dreams to accomplish, a new slate to begin with and a beautiful end to behold. In January, this gives you an adrenaline rush like an athlete ready to run a race. 

 

Beloved, do you know that its more beautiful to behold a vision in our minds than to walk in it? God has shown you a beautiful destination, but you didn't expect the challenges that came with the journey. Its never God’s plan for you to have difficulties, but the devil always wants to fight God’s purpose for our lives. He does that by attacking your faith and you must never let him have his way, never doubt the word of God! God’s beautiful plan never changed and don't let the trails you've faced make you doubt he ever promised anything. God will always make things work out for you. Romans 8 vs 28 [NLT] “And we know that God causes everything to work together for the good of those who love God and are called according to his purpose for them.”

Finally, God’s purpose for us may benefit us in some way, but we shouldn't make the mistake of personalizing it so much that we make it all about ourselves. Galatians 2 vs 20[NLT] “My old self has been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ lives in me. So I live in this earthly body by trusting in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” Even when there are trails on the way remember God authored his plans for you and he will finish it, it is primarily his own because he conceived it and you are just living it out because you live for him. It is always for his glory, get up, trust him and let him. Shalom.

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HARLOTRY

 I have heard people who visit or go to live abroad (especially from Nigeria) say that, they don’t pray as often as they did while they were still in Nigeria. They proceed to say the reason people pray a lot in Nigeria is because so many things are not going right in Nigeria. When I heard that, I knew there was something not right about this saying but I couldn’t tell exactly what it was then. Some people only seek God for their wants and needs, they see God as someone who is just there to make provisions available. When they finally get what they want and everything seems fine, they get away from God or don’t see any need for him or when they go to a new place where their daily “needs” in form of amenities are met, they no longer see any need to pray because they feel there’s nothing to pray for again. Recall those friends in secondary school who came to you because of what you had to give to them. Once they receive what they want, they disappear. Some go as far as becoming ungrateful and talking unkindly about their helpers.

You may be wondering what made me write this, I was reading through the book of Leviticus and I saw how God sternly warned the Israelites not to go against his ordinances when he was taking them to Canaan. Not just in Leviticus, most books of the old testament has warnings to the Israelites on this matter. Canaan was the promised land and God was concerned that the Israelites may see the good in the land and turn away from him, or they will think in their hearts that there is no need for God anymore. God knew the Israelites may see the good in the land of Canaan and think “oh, these people don’t know God yet their lands are flowing with milk and honey, meanwhile we were suffering in Egypt”.  Deuteronomy 31 vs 20 - For I will bring them into the land I swore to give their ancestors—a land flowing with milk and honey. There they will become prosperous, eat all the food they want, and become fat. But they will begin to worship other gods; they will despise me and break my covenant.“ It is not any different from this age, this is not a post to throw stones but does going to somewhere that seems better than where you came from or does having a better means of livelihood change your perspective about God? Do you now feel like you can do without God? Do you now look down on people who hold on to God especially those who seem to be struggling? Progress or whatever should rather put you in a new perspective, especially if your convictions about God has shifted after you got what you wanted. it should make you realize you probably had a give and take relationship with God or your relationship with God was built on a shaky foundation. Remember the parable in Mathew 13 vs 18-23, Jesus spoke about a farmer who planted seeds and how where it fell determines if it grows or not and how it grows. There is a part where the seeds fell on fertile soil but thorns grew amongst the plants and they couldn’t survive. The interpretation of this is that a seed which is the word of God is being planted on a fertile soil (the heart) but the good things or worries of life came and it made the receiver to forget the word of God. God called it harlotry when the children of Israel forsook him to go after the strange gods of foreign lands – Deuteronomy 31 vs 16. In our generation, the gods may not be a graven image but if attaining a new level in life or going to a new country where everything seems to be working convinces you that there is no need for God or there’s no God then you’ve idolized what you have. The children of Israel had instances where they were drawn away by the advice of foreigners to forsake their God because they were convinced by these foreigners that there was no need for God by the words of their mouth and the flaunting of their flamboyant and immoral lifestyles to the Israelites. The Israelites began to think that serving God was some sort of liability or imprisonment so, their lust drew them away from God. In those days, God spoke to them through prophets to bring them back and there were consequences for how they behaved, so they would realize they couldn’t do anything without him. Sons of God still speak these days but some don’t listen, thank God for his grace. Notwithstanding, a soul drawn away by the devil has the whole of eternity to suffer, having rejected the gospel. 

 

With all that has been said, Some people may still argue that people pray instead of working hard. There is no correlation between prayer hindering hard work. Prayer prayed in faith rather makes your hard work more effective. People who pray without going out for job interviews when they need a job, who don’t do the jobs assigned to them in their offices or don’t take up  responsibilities assigned to them are just lazy and inefficient, these has nothing to do with devotion to God. Those who use God as an excuse not to be responsible are just being lazy and this is not God’s principle. The Bible rather encourages people to do the right thing, “What ever your hands finds to do, do it with all your might”- Ecclesiastes 9 vs 10a. However, it’s an issue if you argue this way because it exposes your ignorance about God.

 

It’s about time to devote to God for who he is, not for what he has to offer. It’s time to recognize that the reason you were created by God is for God hence, you should live for him. Be intentional about having a real relationship with God today.

GUILT TRAP

 If you live with toddlers or have one you may be able to relate to this. I cannot remember exactly how it happened but i remember my sister getting ready to go somewhere with one of my nieces, she carried a bag and my niece wanting to copy what she saw carried a bag too, she must have been around 2 years old then. The bag was too big and heavy for her but she insisted on carrying a bag like my sister and even bursted out in tears when we made several attempts to stop her. It was a very funny thing to watch, she couldn't even lift the bag from the floor, and was literally using all her strength to drag it. If we allowed her, she wouldn't mind dragging that bag on the road until she wore her self out.

By now, you may have gotten a clue on what i am aiming at. If not, let me give you another instance. Those who schooled in Nigeria can relate to this. Remember those days in secondary school when you were punished for making noise in class, the punishment could be a senior or teacher telling you to sit on the wall (lean on the wall, with your back against it and your knee bent in a sitting position with no chair or stool to support your behind), while they pile up books on your outstretched arms and you are to remain in that uncomfortable position with books on your arms for a while, maybe a long time. Imagine the sweating, discomfort and especially the pain. Oh, it happened to me once, i was begging for my life. 

As a believer in Christ, you have to be careful and be on alert to reject every burden that Christ has carried on your behalf, one of which i will focus on now is guilt. While in sin, you probably did whatever you did and may not have even felt guilty about it then but now that you've accepted Christ, the devil knows you now have a good heart. He knows you are tender hearted so he may try to bring up the past to stir up some guilt and then you begin to feel terrible, he may take it further by using the ignorance of a believer to cause oppression to them with reference to something that happened in the past. 

Have you read 2 corinthians 5 vs 17, it says ”Therefore, if anyone is in Christ, he is a new creation; old things have passed away; behold, all things have become new.“ This means that there is no evidence of any wrong. You have a clean slate. In fact, if you ask God, he will tell you there’s no record of that offense and he can’t remember it. Remember the illustration i made earlier about my little niece, sometimes we want to carry what we should not carry and then end up wearing ourselves out. No sin is too much or gruesome for Christ to wash away or are you underestimating what Christ has done? All your sins have been forgiven, past, present and future.

Hebrews 8 vs 12 “For i will be merciful to their unrighteousness, and their sins and their iniquities will i remember no more” 

FAITH VS FEAR

 

I have a relative who stayed with us at a particular time, When it was close to bedtime in the girl’s room and we would lay on our beds having conversations, she would put on the light to search for mosquitoes to kill, this could go on for an hour or more and most times, she hardly killed anything. Sometimes, it could be she was on to something important like patching a torn cloth or reading a book and if she sees a mosquito flying around even if its from a distance, she would exclaim “mosquito will deal with us today o” and then leave what ever it was she was doing to go after it and repeat the same cycle of wasting hours on it!

 Remembering that and laughing over it, the Holy spirit told me, this is how many of my children lose focus on important things to chase after the devil. A lot of people think they have to get the devil before he gets them. With everything that happens in their lives, they find something to attribute to the devil even when there’s nothing and this is usually out of fear or in order to avoid accountability for their actions. Some people are so tensed and focused on what the devil is up to next that they see everything as an attack and everyone as a means through which the devil could attack them, this has driven people to go to places to seek help where the presence of God is absent and they ended up in more trouble.

 Do you know that God has rendered Satan powerless? He made a public spectacle of the enemy. Hence, he has no power over you to harm you - Colossians 2 vs 15. God has given you power to thread upon serpents and scorpions. There will be temptations and trials but the knowledge of God’s word will keep you focused and you will pray by faith from a place of victory. God wants you to know him more, build a relationship with him and walk in his will for your life, this should be your focus. It’s the devil’s trick to distract you and make you lose focus.

 

Be sober, be vigilant; because your adversary the devil walks about like a roaring lion, seeking whom he may devour. Resist him, steadfast in the faith, knowing that the same sufferings are experienced by your brotherhood in the world - 1 Peter 5 vs 8-9 . Peter didn’t recommend here that we go after Satan. He said to keep your spirit sensitive and alert and this can be done by consistent study of the word of God, spending time in prayer, listening to and yielding to the voice of the Holy spirit. Resist him in the name of Jesus and he will flee. You also resist the devil by resisting the temptations he brings your way ; sexual immorality, envy, greed etc. Be steadfast in the faith; In addition to what has been said earlier, not neglecting fellowshipping with the brethren keeps you steadfast in the faith. Have faith In God’s protection.